In meinem Blog durchdenke und durchfühle ich Schlagworte, die für mich in unserer (Zwischen-) Menschlichkeit von Bedeutung sind. Oft philosophisch, manchmal konkret fließt in diesen Blog seit vielen Jahren das, was mich in meiner eigenen (Weiter-) Entwicklung und in der Beobachtung der Welt bewegt.
Weil ich bis 2021 in den USA gelebt habe, sind viele meiner Posts auf Englisch.
In my blog, I reflect on and explore key words that I consider meaningful to our humanity & relationships. Often philosophical, sometimes tangible, this blog portrays what has moved me in my personal development and in my observations for many years.
As I had lived in the US until 2021, many of my posts are in English.
Enough is Enough is Enough
I’m writing these lines with a stiff neck, barely able to keep it straight and my shoulders square. It’s painful enough as it is but even more painful when I listen to what it tells me. It yells & kicks “Enough!”. Enough of the pretending; enough of the keeping up with other people’s perspectives & way of doing things; enough of the assumptions & expectations of myself that I’ll never be able to fulfil. (…)
The Pressures of Change
Often we assume that once we’ve healed an emotional wound, tapped into more spaciousness & freedom, we naturally need to feel relieved, more energetic, focused & all the good stuff. In my experience that’s often not what happens right away. And here’s why: (…)
Healing’s Secret Side Effect: Spaciousness
If you’d asked me years ago what could be the result of healing (becoming whole again), I’d probably have answered that I’d hoped to feel more fulfilled, fuller of purpose, more grounded & embodied. I wouldn’t have answered that I might feel more spacious, less limited in time & space, lighter, connected & yet freer, that precious balance between being safely bonded & autonomous at the same time. (…)